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Wednesday, July 27, 2005
*How To Limit People Who Are Detrimental To Your Relationship*

The first step is to realize there is a problem. So, to start you'll need to understand how they are harmful to your relationship. Before taking any action, decide what it is about that person that is a negative influence. Do they make harmful comments? Do they fail to be supportive? Are they draining you emotionally or financially? Really take a look at the overall effect the person is having on your life. Once you've determined to what extent they are a problem, you'll need to figure out a way to dissolve the effect they are creating. The most effective way is to remove them from your relationship completely. That means no more communication. First, you will need to cut off communication for as long as you possibly can. View this period of time as one of getting back to what is more important. You'll know when the time is right to make contact again. If you can't remove them, find a way to remove yourself for a short time as this alone time for you as a couple is extremely important. The point is that when friends are an outside influence causing problems in a relationship, they will continue to create conflicts until they destroy the relationship or until they are found out. For example, "How to know if your partner is faithful to you?" causes you to have doubts about your partner.

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