
the man
# miki
# 22 yrs old
he loves
# her
# and her
# still her
his wishlist
:: genting trip ::
:: card holder ::
:: get married ::
:: finish my diploma ::
:: be father ::
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the lady
# veron
# 29 yrs old
she loves
# him
# and him
# still him
her mood
her wishlist
:: genting trip ::
:: settling down ::
:: french village trip ::
:: Disneyland ;) ::
Knowing is not enough;
we must apply.
Willing is not enough;
we must do.
:Goethe:
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Every couple needs to have some basic common points of agreement in order to succeed. These "agreements" could be as simple as you both know you want children, or that you both have similar moral values. One of the hardest situations to deal with is when one partner is obviously more committed to the relationship than the other. It may be because one loves the other more, or it could be that one of you is just not ready to make a commitment yet. Everyone deserves to be treated with value and love. If you have a partner who doesn't respect you, talk to them about it. Let them know how you feel. After some period of time you do have to put in effort to keep it alive. It doesn't have to be much. In fact, the most romantic people I know just take the time to do the little things to make their partner feel special. Make a commitment to do something romantic at least every day. Commitment is the greatest key to a successful relationship. If you are committed you will always find a way to work things out. Nothing can damage a relationship more than dishonesty, even white lies. In every case, honesty is the best policy. This also means... don't put yourself in situations you feel the need to lie about. Relationships are built on trust. Once broken it's very difficult to rebuild. Avoid, at any cost, falling into this trap. Trust is an important part of any relationship and it needs to be developed. If you say you are going to do something and don't, then how can your partner rely on you in the future? Treat your partner with respect.